Why do we wait until the end of the year to reflect? Reflection should be something you do on a regular basis. Checking if you are where you thought you would be at that point in time, or being who you said you wanted to be.
Having Resolutions is not the cure. How many of us have made that mistake of making a resolution and not being able to carry it through beyond the first week or two of proposing it. Why set yourself up to fail in this way.
As we move into the New Year 2012, take time out to look back on your achievements, your failures and your non achievements. You can get what you ask for, but you need to know these three important things first. The law of attraction works, but only if you believe and know what to ask for.
- What have you got to be grateful for? Being grateful is something that the law of attraction recognises, to not take things for granted. We should all take time out to look at things to be grateful for.
Me, I'm grateful I have such a great family. You see, this year has been a tough one on the family front. My mother was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia. I had noticed her forgetting little things, things she had placed and couldn't remember where she had placed them, this I put down to 'old age' after all she is 84 years old. Then other little things came up, like the repitition of a sentence in short periods of time, the attention wandering, the tears of frustration and anger, something which was totally alien for my mother. I have always known her as a strong woman, a strong believer in God and the church, patient, loving and ever so thoughtful as only mums can be I guess. So it was hard to see her change in these ways. But, when the rest of my family, aunts, cousins, siblings began to 'step forward' and offer to help with looking after her, this made me feel humbled and overjoyed at the fact that I have such a wonderful caring family around me, willing to help and support out of love. Friends also have been wonderful and supportive.
So for me, being grateful for being born into such a wonderful family, who are all caring and loving is what 2011 bought out for me amongst other things.
It isn't until tragedy strikes that you know just how many people around you are there for you. I found this out in 2011.
I lost a couple of great friends in 2011, and this brought out the frailty we all have and take for granted. Life is precious and we should live this day by day and enjoy what you do, day by day. We are after all here on borrowed time, how much time we don't know but the creator up there does…
2. What Do You Want? Knowing what it is you want will help you to focus on how to get it. Many though are not clear on what it is they want. They are not clear because they are too general in asking for what they want. Be specific, go down to 'detail'. As the Great philosopher JIM Rohn said. 'It's all in the detail'…. Remember you get what you ask for, so be careful and be specific to what you ask for.
3. Are you able to let yourself Go? An important part of being able to move forward, to achieve more than you think you can, is the ability to be able to 'let yourself go'. Let yourself go from what was inhibiting you, it could be a mind thing, or a physical thing, but you have to learn to 'let it go'.
Trust your instincts, don't be afraid to take the step that will set you free. It's is not until you are able to 'let yourself go' that things begin to happen.
In the beginning of 2011, I let go of what was holding me back with regards to having a great relationship. As soon as I made this promise to myself in January of 2011, I met a fantastic man in March of that same year. I believe meeting him was not fate, it was what I had asked the universe for and it was brought to me.
The universe can act for you or against you, depending on what you think, how you feel, and your ability to 'let it go' and trust your instincts.
Now you have these powerful tips on getting whatyou want, I would advise that you also take on board personal development, as this has also played a big part in my life, and in most high flying entrepreneurs of today, they all swear by personal development, learning from others before them who have gone through the same path and acheived what it is they wish to achieve and more. If you don't grow, how do you expect your business or your expectations to grow?
Wishing you sucess for 2012!
Colette Morris aka workfmhomediva
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